Most of you have by now heard of Anthony Bourdain’s recent passing. I heard of it when I touched down at Sydney Airport early on Saturday morning and my Instagram feed was filled with pictures of him. For the last few years, that is how I hear of someone passing as people spread their condolences through tributes on social media. As I scrolled down my blood chilled and then I saw that it was suicide and I was even more stunned. No, no, no…I whispered.